5. Problem-solving skills
Wisdom to deal the problems in marriage is another important ingredient. Couples must have the wisdom to deal with the problem and not attack the person. Here are a few wisdom principles to develop this skill.
1. Agreement- the couples must be in agreement to settle the issue and move on.
2. Focus on the root- all problems come from a root issue. The root problem, normally come a unfullfilled need or a need violated.
3. Sharing perceptions-Allow each person to share how they perceive the issue.
4. Understand and Respect-both are essential to resolving an issue. What you don't understand, you still need to respect.
5. Plan for progress- discuss how you can move on. Change a routine and maintain your closeness.
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